男朋友只用来拍拖

前天，我的好朋友告诉我她开始对她的男朋友有要求了。当男朋友不能达到她的要求时，她有点失望。这本来就是一个见怪不怪的现象。许多女生都会遇上这问题，包括我。在这里我有一篇文章想与你们分享，摘自深雪。

女孩子忽然成熟了，她悟出一个道理：男朋友只是用来拍拖，不是用来依靠。
是不是很聪明？拍拖还拍拖，开心还开心，但情绪上、经济上的依赖，这还是得靠自己。少数女人有依靠男人的命运，吃他的、穿他的，思想上、情绪上一律可以依赖他。男人是他的米饭班煮、爱人、性伴侣、朋友、心里辅导员。
但大部分女人都无这种好命。经济靠自己、遇上困难靠自己。
最错是社会上的错误观念。自小，我们被灌输「男朋友是万能」这种思想，只要遇上一名爱我的男人，我便会得到经济上的扶助、心灵上的支持等等。
然而，真相往往是，男朋友即负担不起我们的开支，又不太愿意在心灵精神层面安抚我们。无论物质或是心灵方面，女人最终都只得靠自己。
每个女人都会体会过幻想破灭的痛苦。当我们发现了男朋友实现不到那个“万能侠”形象后，我们就知道根本一切都是谎言。
如果，男朋友能在某方面补助你， 你已该感谢神恩。做女人，还是踏实一点才会感到幸福。
以后，就抱着拍拖还拍拖，自己靠自己的概念去谈恋爱吧！不抱幻想， 就自然不会失望。这种思想并不灰暗，只是实在。

希望这篇文章可以带给你们一点一滴的帮助。加油咯！

not yet

narh...dis painting is still in progress...it's been a long time dat i didnt hold a brush...sighed...my mom urged me to gift her a painting...oh no! mother's day is coming...i've to hurry then...by da way, i'm not an art student but a sc student...dun ask me y...chao!!!

mood@skill?

i draw wif my feelings n inspiration...not wif skill...
"now...i finally realised dat i am not competing wif others...but myself...all dis year...after i "sink", i didnt let myself to rise again...which made me pathetic..."

mY f@ilure

dis is one of my art works...is da 1 dat i like da most...basically...i didnt attend any art class(none of my frens believe dat) but it's true...when I was a little gal ( around 3 years old)....i drew a flag using water color...i showed it to my mom...n she refused to believe dat i drew it, the flag...i still remember how sad i was...I'm not one of the gifted or talented person in art because i failed many times...when i was standard 4, it was da 1rst time i joined the public contest(my buddha)...I didnt even get into consolation price catogori...i was very dissappointed...then i participated another public contest during mooncake festival...again, i was not even close to the consolation prize...till now...it drew me back to join any public contests...in school...utmost...i only managed to get the 3rd placed( school's drawing contest, which is compulsory)...it really killed off my confidence...n i 'ved gone through dis all by myself...i gained back a little confidence when I moved to ipoh~form3~---I think it was by luck dat I gain a certificate stating dat i had the highest mark for pendidikan seni at the end of the year...but now,it is no longer important...