WHO R U???

#two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be 1 traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads onto way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence;
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I-
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.#
Robert frost<1961>
Over da years, i hav no interest to look at da meaning of dis poem...THE ROAD NOT TAKEN... as it was just one of da poems for me to study n get good grades in exams...but now, I hav often reflected upon dis poem...one decision, n the only one...And that made all the difference...life is alwiz bout da paths dat we choose...how i wish there's sume1 can guide me... wat to choose?...which road should i take? pls stop...stop telling me everything it's up to me...i need more than dat...i need advices...i need ur guidiance...i need ur light to shine my way....i need u to giv me hope, confidence n bravery...i need u to tell me who am I?...I need u to tell me wat qualities do i hav in making such decisions...y do i hav to face all da hurdles alone, onli by myself?...y cant u be wif me?...u know, u know i need u desperately...u know i need u to stay close wif me, support me....i'm lost...where r u? y r u hiding?...i'm so alone...

献给我最挚爱的好友

真得很抱歉！我没有勇气告诉你，我爱你。
因此，我把这份爱意悄悄地埋在心里头， 尽量不让你发现。
只是默默地站在一旁看着你， 却又害怕让你看到我眼里所藏末对你的爱意。
原来这就是暗恋， 亦是一种苦恋。
当我们喜欢一个人的时候，心灵就莫名奇妙地也变成特别的脆弱。
他的偶尔冷漠，关心不足，些微拒绝，也能深深伤害我们的心。
他甚至什么也不需要做，只是单单存在着，已经是一种澎湃的伤害。
对的人。对的开始。对的目标。对的进行方式。从来就不容易。爱上一个人，也一样。结局会演变成怎么样，不是你和我都可以预测出来的， 因为爱情只可以存在于手心之外。如果你也像我好友般，在暗恋着某个人，不妨花点时间看看这故事。

《何必偏偏晚谢我》中的一双孪兄弟，在结局之前说了一番很有意思的话。
生性退缩犹豫的哥哥和开朗积极的弟弟一同回想中学时代的生活。哥哥说起弟弟恋慕过的女同学，他表面上对弟弟友善，但背地里却说他坏话，哥哥听了，替弟弟难受，一直不能释怀。
但弟弟的反应却毫不介意，他深知乃怀念那年头恋慕过那名女同学的快乐。哥哥不明白弟弟的大方，于是弟弟就解释他对爱情的概念。
他说：“我爱，故我在。我不介意她怎样对我，我对她的爱，连她也无权带走。”
哥哥当头棒喝。看来，弟弟是最懂得如何去活和爱的人啊！他享受爱着一个人的快乐，当爱的感觉存在，就算对方辜负他的爱，或者拒绝了他，他也不会受到太大的伤害。
你活得像哥哥还是弟弟？哥哥自卑，极之介意别人的看法，活得拘禁苦闷；弟弟的外形与哥哥同样平凡，但弟弟只为令自己快乐而活，于是他的日子有趣又自在。
或许我们既像哥哥又像弟弟。当爱情顺境时，活得似弟弟，但当遇上逆境时，立刻就变成哥哥。
活得似弟弟，其实是一种理想。多么动人啊！只为爱而爱，爱过，就无人有权带走，连伤害我们的那个人也带不走。

如果爱情可以叫人苏醒，那它也可以让人重新昏迷。
感情事冥冥中自有定数，而未来是虚无的。
感情中的真实，就是此时此刻。
一定要愿意承认失败，创伤才能被治疗。
肯面对现实，就能放得下，然后才会有从新开始的机会。
千万别让遗憾留落在心里头。

4 luv or money?

A few days ago, i'ved came across an article entitled "choosing money over luv"...reading the article For Love or Money?...well, most of da guys will say dat gals r materialistic if they chose money over luv...no doubt, there's many things to comment about the carnal values of the socialites...They're smart, beautiful n sharp, but y do these women marry 4 da sake of money?...wat i can say is ...GET REAL...in dis day n age, luv alone is far from enough...or hav u ever doubt dat does luv really exist? It exists, perhaps...but it's oso get away easily ...it's very lucky to hav a man who luv u n capable of providing 4 u ( if u're da lucky 1, dun hesitate, go 4 it)...but wat if u're not the lucky one ( most gals r catogorized in da "not so lucky" )...10 out of 8 gals will tell u dat their goal r to find a man who could provide them wif material comfort...they might dun wan riches nor a jet-setting lifestyle...just as long as he fulfils the family obligations n makes sure dat da family is comfortable....or else, wat's da use of a man who luvs u but is struggling to pay his own bills, much less da children's skul fees? N who knows, he can take off anytime, leaving u to shoulder the burdern of raising da kids by urself...if dat's da way, i'll prefer not to get marrie...who cares dat i'll be single 4ever as long as i am happy wif my life n wat more...if i'm financially independent...

我是大废材

我时常都会为自己做不到的事情而感无奈
为自己的无能而感失望
从失望演变成绝望
没有希望了 再也不需要你的奢侈了
连最后一道光芒都静悄悄地从我眼里消失
我 被淘汰了
我 被遗弃了
人才是人间的天才
天才亦是天下的蠢材
而我就是那个人才 那个大废材